I saw this on an office wall today and it really made me laugh and reflect on some of the hilarious ‘dumb’ things I have done over the years. I laugh at myself all the time. Many people wouldn’t admit to doing such outrageously ‘dumb’ things as I have done, either because they believe that no-one in their right mind would believe them or they wouldn’t want to look stupid. Quite frankly I don’t care what others think as doing ‘dumb’ things simply makes me laugh at myself and helps me to become a little more mindful (well… sometimes).
It seems over the years, as I have increased my yoga and meditation practise, I have become more focused and aware. I don’t seem to walk into a room these days arriving and not knowing why; or finding the iron in the fridge; or misplacing every sock in the house; or forgetting where I have left my car!
Although….I do recall going to a friend’s house one night and staying so late that we thought it would be a good idea for me to stay over. I rang the police the next morning because my car had been stolen from outside her house. The police arrived in little under an hour and said they had found my car. It was parked at my house around the corner. I had forgotten I had walked.
Then I guess there was the time when I arrived at the airport without my wallet and had to catch a plane to Hong Kong. Of course, my wallet contained all my credit cards and money. I asked someone at the check-in counter if they could lend me enough money to use a public phone. (Yes, it was before smart phones). I rang the office, asked my work mates to take up a collection from their weekly pay and send it in a cab to Tullamarine (Melbourne’s international airport). I boarded the plane. Sometime later I found my wallet in the freezer wrapped up with the frozen spinach!
Another time, when I wasn’t paying attention, was when I was travelling with my youngest brother through Central America. We travelled with a group and had our own bus. We all disembarked to buy water and to stretch our legs. When the word came to re-board I did. But I got on the wrong bus. Here I was sitting amongst a whole lot of Mexicans (which I didn’t notice). I should have twigged when there was a chicken or three running around my feet. But didn’t. My brother who had been watching my movements boarded the bus took me by the hand and guided me onto our transport, just calmly shaking his head, not uttering a word and therefore insinuating I had completely ‘lost the plot’. In retrospect, what was even funnier, is that I didn’t know where I was; no-one spoke English in the province; and it could have been days, indeed weeks, before I was found.
The irony is that I am not slothful and know my arms are my arms. But when I am over-using my brain, ‘being busy’ and scrambling my mind with thousands of useless thoughts, I lose focus. I then just ‘lose it’ and have no idea where I am or what I am doing. And….we are all the same! Believe me we are. You just won’t admit it!
So the answer….slow down; meditate; be mindful; don’t take yourself too seriously and laugh a lot!
And….don’t climb trees!
Photo source: Google – author – unknown